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Moving Past Gender Barriers to Negotiate a Raise

July 5, 2016 By Dr.Lasky

Woman approaching bossMoving Past Gender Barriers to Negotiate a Raise

Women face more difficulty asking for a raise than men do.  Therefore they need to do a bit more research and use a slightly different approach to avoid being perceived as demanding and unlikeable.

Here are some suggestions from the experts:

-Keep a record of positive feedback you receive, overtime clocked and any clear metrics you have about your performance, so you can discuss them in an ‘objective way’ during a performance review.

-When possible subtly ask colleagues to mention your excellent work to your boss/supervisor.

-Research the salary range of others in your position.  Speak with men as well as women, since men tend to earn more.

-Indicate that you maintain good relationships, a feminine quality.

-Suggest how this raise/promotion will enhance your boss’s position so you are discussing a ‘we’ not a ‘me’ idea.

-Negotiate in person, not over email.

-Practice, practice,, practice, role playing your conversation with a close friend before you actually ask for the raise or promotion is an excellent idea.

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